
Hello friends!
Well I have been posting a lot lately... but I just wanted to say good morning before I began my day.
Today is my 'day off'. I am doing my loose Flylady schedule and it is really impacting my life in a positive way. I don't think I ever embraced the philosophy as much when I did it before.
My house looks better than it has in a long, long time. Not perfect, but that is OK. In fact that is one place where Flylady nailed me--- I was that kind of perfectionist who saw all there was to do, felt it was a 6 hour job, didn't have the time to give it (after all I am a SAHM, homeschooling,( A Serious Homeschooler, mind you) creative, lots of research to do, laundry in the hamper, etc)--- so would just let it grow.
I also felt (now this sounds dramatic!!) a bit of a prisoner in that I would not let myself really enjoy and do other things because all the jobs in the house weighed on me. Not just clutter and cleaning, but files that had not been cleaned in years, financial papers out of order.. etc.
So.
Now, I am getting there by BabySteps. Really this works. For example, this week the zone I am working on is the kitchen.
I spend 15 minunte a day with my timer in the zone. I have a list of suggested jobs I could tackle. At the end of 15 minutes I must STOP. Yesterday I set the timer and wiped out the ugly drips in the freezer door. I never did before because REALLY the whole freezer needs to be cleaned and there is stuff up there from forever and lots belongs to my chef dh (like parmesean regianno rinds he 'needs' - but are 5 years old?)-- so I just ignored the whole freezer.
Well, yesterday I cleaned the drips. Then I sorted and cleaned out the door items. 12 minutes left. I wiped the fridge edges inside. 10 min left. I took out one of the fridge shelves and cleaned it, culled the bottle that was 3 years old and replaced. Then I did the cheese drawer.
Timer went off! I looked at the fridge and it looked great. Yes there was more, but that is all for now.
Boys and I had cleaned out the pantry on my BIG zone day.. and it looked great.
This is almost fun! I mean that I can choose what little section I want to look happy and *know* that in 15 minutes I get to quit.
I used to clean all day, exhaust myself snip at the kids, then never do it again for months and feel the weight of the mess and the eye clutter.
So, all this to say, slowly, in little steps my house is looking better. I feel happier and lighter. And as a bonus, I made Thursday my day off. And I deserve it.. if you saw my post from the other day, you will see why! LIke you all, I do a lot. I think I just don't play as much because I don't have little ones to play with. I used to play all the time!
I play some with my big guys, but I also think God is telling me to learn how to play again, alone, with friend and with my dh, because my boys are growing up. Though they are not rid of me yet and we do still have fun together. :)
So.. my day off. I think I am going to spend the day researching how to make these cracked pottery pots I saw once on That's Clever on HGTV. I bought a glider bench for the front yard and a side table. It was a Mother's Day gift.. Bryan made a gift certificate for me since dh and the boys werent' sure what kind of bench I wanted.
Dh picks that up for me tomorrow.
So I thought today I might find out how to make that pot, then have it on the side table to enjoy as I sip my tea and say hi to the neighbors as they walk by.
Another aside.. when my boys were younger I was outside all the time seeing neighbors. Now I rarely get out, except to walk the dogs. One day I had a garage sale, brought out some chairs and my sweet neighbor came and sat and we talked for a hour.
I have always wanted a front yard bench, because I know if I sit, they will come!
I hope you all have a wonderful day.. off to workout then explore my pot-making! It is the kind where you take pices of pottery and glue them on.... in a mosaic. Anyone done this?