Thursday, January 25, 2007

Our Trip to Brazil



Jack and Anne (our neighbors) had us over to see all their wonderful pictures of their trip to Brazil.

They are a retired couple who live across the street and know how much we enjoy nature, so they often share their experiences with us. Jack is an avid bird watcher and writes articles for the local birding group. Anne travels with him all over the world to find birds and enjoy nature and travel.

The boys, dh and I went over last week and we all crowded upstairs in the spare bedroom turned den. Also present were J and A's dd and sil. Up there was the TV with the DVD that worked... so we all watched as Jack narrated us through a half hour of wonderful pictures, complete with a pointer and a map of Brazil.

The pictures on here are not his, but two of the animals I remember him showing us. The monkey is a Tamerin Lion Monkey. The cutest things, Anne said. They are also threatened. The bird is a Channel Billed Toucan. The reptile is a caiman (which I had never heard of before). He said they are very slow and very dumb... but I think they look very fierce!

They told us that in the rainforest when the birds and monkeys get going the sound can be deafening! After hearing of their adventures, walking up to 5 miles a day in the hot, humid weather, youngest ds asked why anyone would want to do that for a vacation! Spoken like a true A/C loving suburbanite.

He also told us about the Pantanel, the world's largest wetlands. Every year for 6 months it is flooded by waters draining off the platueau south of the Amazon River, then for 6 months it is totally dry. Because of this, it is largely unpopluated and full of wildlife.

He recorded over 200 birds identifies on this trip, 73 of which he had never seen before. It was funny, though, because when a picture of a flower came up, he wouldn't have a clue of the name. But boys he knows his birds!

Well, we go to live vicariously through our neighbor's trip. Below is a diary Jack generously shared with us. It was interesting looking up the places and treks they made. He kindly allowed me to share it here.




ON SAFARI IN THE PANTANAL AND OTHER PARTS OF BRAZIL
By Jack Gorman

In the last half of November Anne and I were fortunate to spend 12 days of jam packed activities in Brazil on an International Exposition tour of the Pantanal, Iguazu Falls and parts of Rio de Janeiro. It was quite an adventure. Here are my impressions of our travels through these very unique parts of Brazil.


Brazil is a huge country with a land area similar to that of the United States. Since the equator slices through its middle, Brazil encompasses a variety of vastly different ecological areas. Most famous is the mighty Amazon River with its vast tropical jungles. It has fascinated the world for years. On the other hand, little has been written about the Pantanal, Brazil’s other huge but much different eco-system. Sitting in the middle of the South American Continent, the Pantanal is a geological depression that holds in its sink the largest wetlands in the world. Stretching over an area somewhat larger than the state of Wisconsin, 90% of the Pantanal is in Brazil. It has two seasons, the dry season where it gets very little rain from May to November (winter time in Brazil) and the wet season from December to April (Summer in Brazil). Throughout the dry season the Pantanal is blanketed with a lowland savanna interspersed with patches of forestlands, numerous rivers, and shallow lakes.. As the wet season arrives the high plateaus south of the Amazon River receive vast amounts of rainfall. Water flushes down into the Pantanal and overflows its rivers and floods huge sections of its lowlands. Because of its flat topography, drainage is very slow which renders much of the land useless for general habitation or farming. Eventually the floodplain dries out and reverts back into dry savanna. Because of this unique flood cycle the Pantanal is sparsely settled and has been converted into large cattle ranches over the last 400 years. We spent four days roaming these ranchlands, learning about and marveling at its natural fauna and flora. We stayed at the Refugio Ecologico Caiman, a 250,000 acre cattle ranch that caters to eco-tourists. Getting there was no easy jaunt. After landing in Sao Paulo we flew to Campo Grande, a small city in the pampas ca 600 miles to the northwest. Then, riding in a mini-bus we bounced along for 4 ½ hours until we reached the ranch which sits just inside the edge of the Pantanal.




On safari in the Pantanal in November when the weather is topping the 90 degree mark went something like this. Our group of 10 visitors was led by a naturalist working for International Expositions and two local guides. Our primary objective was bird watching. However, we also eagerly enjoyed the sightings of indigenous animals, butterflies, exotic trees, plants and flowers. We woke up around 6;00 AM to the screams and screeches of parrots, parakeets, and Chachalacas. Following a hearty breakfast we began our morning discoveries out in the savanna. For the first two days we were on foot, scouring the fields, forests, ponds, and shallow lakes that surround the ranch. The ponds and lakes were loaded with caiman languishing half submerged in the water and on shore. They seemed exceedingly lazy and thankfully never bothered us. Birding around the ranch was easy and exciting. The lawns were dotted with Rufous-bellied and Pale-breasted Thrushes along with a Red-creasted Cardinal or two.. Large Poinciana trees were bursting with beautiful red blooms, hummingbirds and Parakeets. A giant Cecropia tree loomed over the compound and attracted birds like a magnet. Many different bird species frolicked in its canopy, including; Toco Toucans, Black-headed parrots, Monk Parakeets, a variety of tanagers and a territorial Kiskadee. The marshland held a smattering of ibises, herons and Muscovy Ducks while swallows wove their graceful flights over the fields and lakes. By 10;30 AM we and the birds were hot and tired, so we went back to the ranch house and the birds stopped calling. A swim in the pool and a buffet lunch followed. Temperatures sizzled as we took a siesta to avoid the mid-day heat. Late Afternoons found us off again. This time we went on safari in a high-riding open-air truck that bounced us along for hours to new locations. It was easy spotting birds and animals in the shallow mud holes along the elevated roads At selected locations we hopped down and struck out into the woods to tramp through the tangles of a twisting trail. I estimated that we walked at least 5-6 miles a day and spent many hours standing with binoculars peeled. Sitting high in the truck, the flat rangeland seemed to roll out in all directions. Carunda Palms dominated the open savanna standing strait and tall with tasseled heads while herds of white cattle lounged and grazed beneath them in small groups. Greater Rheas (birds similar to Ostriches) wandered about in the open and once we spotted a covey of 14 immature rheas being shepherded by two male chaperons.



Each small mud hole had a bird or two feeding at its leisure and close to the road. Wattled Jacanas, Plumbeous, Buff-necked, Green, and Bare-faced Ibis along with Rufescent Tiger-herons, and Whistling, Cocoi, Striated and Capped Herons predominated. A few lonely Jabaru Storks, with their 4 ½ foot height and huge black beaks were not as common and a Greater Black Hawk seemed out of place feeding on the ground. Large patches of dense forest produced species such as the White Woodpecker, Savanna Hawk, Golden-collared Macaw, Spectacled Owl and Red-billed Scythebill. Parakeets were very common. We observed three pairs of Hyacinth Macaws (an endangered species) feeding and nesting in the Acuri and Bocaiuva Palm trees. Nesting boxes had also been provided for the macaws by conservationists because of the lack of tree holes.
Our safaris also produced sightings of resident animals, including; Giant Anteaters, Capibaras, Coatis, Yellow Armadillos, Black Howler Monkeys, Red-backed and Marsh Deer, Peccaries, Feral Pigs, Agoutis, and lizards of many sizes Jaguar foot prints were spotted but no jaguars. Colorful foliage and butterflies were common.

Upon leaving Refugio Caiman we bused back to Campo Grande and flew on to Iguazu Falls via a stop in Sao Paulo, arriving late in the night. Our go-go schedule didn’t change but the locale was starkly different. Staying at the magnificent old Hotel Tropical das Cataracas overlooking the falls we felt as if we were in imperial Europe where the elite dress for meals (many did but we stuck to our hiking dudes). Located on the Parana River the falls stretch across 2 ½ miles of tropical landscape between Brazil and Argentina. The early morning weather was uncomfortably hot and humid as we had breakfast on the patio. Dozens of Red-rumped Caciques entertained us with their constant squabbling and jiving amidst their myriad clumps of nests in the nearby trees. A Toco Toucan aroused a screaming angry mob of Caciques when it appeared on the scene looking for eggs to eat. Then a coati drew our attention as it fearlessly climbed on to a breakfast table to sample leftovers. Then, we were out early to amble down the hiking trails on the Brazilian side of the falls. Cutting across the lawn we scared up a flock of tiny Blue-winged Parrotlets. As we started down the winding cliffside trail a Red-breasted Toucan flushed from her nesting cavity and Plumbeous Kites constantly circled overhead.. The twisting, paved trail offered us many multi-faceted views of the spectacular falls at every twist and turn. For me it was like walking through a kaleidoscope of Church’s tropical paintings. As we reached the bottom a cold mist blew over us as we ambled out on the walkway leading to the bottom edge of the falls. Great Dusky Swifts twittered in joy as they flew in and out through the spray while visiting their nests that were safely tucked behind the waterfalls. Wet with pleasure we took the elevator up and then lunched at a restaurant on the edge of the cataracts. The following day we did the Argentinean side of the falls, hiking for many hours throughout the parkland. The highlight of the day’s hike was walking out on a long narrow causeway that brought us directly over the mouth of the falls as they plunged down over the cliffs. Their mists chilled us and their thunderous roar was deafening. Our afternoon adventures found us in a helicopter, riding over the falls where Anne took some spectacular photos We ended our stay at Iguazu with a tour of an outside, walkthrough, aviary where we literally could walk and talk with dozens of tropical parrots, macaws, toucans, rheas, curassows, and ibises in a rainforest setting. Then, it was on to Rio De Janeiro.

A light rain greeted us as we pulled into our hotel on Ipanema Beach at 1:00 AM in the morning. Up early again we left for a excursion to Tijuca national Park where we would ride the tramway to the top of Corcovado Mountain. Up the steep cogway we silently glided through a tropical rainforest. We smiled at its whimsical statuary and oohed at the, tropical gardens, and large yellow blobs of wild Jackfruit hanging from its tall trees. Reaching the top we marveled at the spectacular views of Rio while the huge statue of Christ looked down on us with arms extended. It was a photographers delight. After lunch we explored the Rio Botanical Gardens for three hours. It seemed we covered all 150 acres of it. Initially begun at the turn of the 19th century, the gardens were planted with both endemic and imported foliage. Its huge trees dwarfed over us as we searched for birdlife that was plentiful. Tanagers here, a Kiskadee there, a Rufous-capped Antshrike in the hedges, Violet-capped and Swallow-Tailed Hummingbirds near the orchid garden, a Channel-billed Toucan on nest, and a Slaty-breasted Woodrail sulking near the lily pond were great finds for our bird list. I could have easily enjoyed another two days there. But we had to get back for a late afternoon stroll on Impanema Beach.

Our last days were spent it two different parts of the Brazilian Atlantic rainforest. In the morning we visited Poco das Antas where we hiked through the wet into the rainforest Our guides located a band of six Golden Lion Tamarins, an indigenous specie on the world’s endangered animal list.. Watching and photographing these squirrel-size monkeys, with their human-like faces as they jumped from branch to branch was utterly delightful. Moving on to Serra Dos Orgaos National Park we spent the night high in the mountains above Teresopolis. One last morning was ours to explore the tree-top walkways of this sanctuary set in the rugged hillside a few miles from burgeoning Rio. It offered us another 23 species for our bird list that then topped the 200 mark. But alas, our power-packed journey had to end too soon and it was back to Houston, a three-flight 20 hour trip.

Warm and Cozy Cup of Love (and chocolate)



















Cindy with her Cozy Cup

Had a job walking pups

The cuter the better

For all kinds of weather....

drinking from her cozy cup.


Maria put this poem in the comments section and I had to move it to the front page! I loved it!
My dear friend gave me a beautiful cup and it was full of chocolate candy. Why? I asked. Just because she likes me, she said.

Everything tastes better from my Cozy Cup. :)

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

I'm So Excited!


I finally was able to meet with my pastor and our Adult Education director at my home parish today about the Lighthouse Catholic Media CDs... and they loved them! And when the director asked when.. Father dove right in! We are going to kick off the ministry on the first Sunday of Lent!

I am SO excited!

I had to make my presentation quick. Father looked so tired and only had a few minutes. So I told them my conversion story and how so much of it was inspired by these speakers and writers. Then how my dh's faith expanded the same way. And then how last summer I found out that St. Joseph's was starting up this ministry and I signed up.

Then, I went through a fast version of how it worked. My pastor loved the speakers, especially Scott Hahn. Yea! And, saw right away how this would work, since I didn't cover it all to shorten it, he practically read my notes back to me. Great for commuters. Great for young families. Great for people who don't have time.

And it turns out the AD Director was looking for some new tech ways to get the message out. And here it is!

And, she found out I wanted to lead the ministry and do the restocking, announcements and legwork. So it was a win-win.

This LCM work has had its ups and downs, but the ups are such ups, because I know that these CD will get good teaching out and also will help people through very difficulties. The speakers are just wonderful.

And today we read the daily scripture and guess what it was? Sowing seed.... and seeing were it falls. On rocky soil, or thorns or good soil. That was so nice to read before I went in, in case they didn't like this.

This is really an easy thing to show people because it really is like I am just a messenger and if God's word is going to spread, it will. But it is so wonderful to see a bit of fertile soil...

Just to think... hundreds... thousands of CD will go out. How they might affect people's lives? Amazing. I am so excited we are going to have this in our own parish.

And kick off weekend is the first weekend of Lent! Please say a prayer for us. :)

And if you want this in your parish, let me know and I will see who the rep is in your area. And if you want CDs for you and to share, check out the new CD of the Month club. (put in promo code 1125 and I will get some bubble gum money.. lol)
click here

More Civil War

I am about 3/4 the way through Uncle Tom's Cabin.

Cay, when you pick it up again, let's discuss! Wow, I just find I want to talk about this book to others... there are so many aspects of it that intrigue me.
First, when/why it was written. It was written before the war, by a stanch Christian women who as trying to expose the evil of slavery by putting a human face to it. Boy did she succeed.

Many northerners were NOT against slavery. They did not fight the war to free the slaves. They fought it for the preservation of the Union and their nation and didn't particularly want the slaves freed. She was trying in part to reach those people and have them become sympathetic to the Abolitionists. Anyway, I could go on, but I won't..

Last night at dinner we got talking about this book. I could not help but give a narration to my men. But I wanted to hold back some of my opinions so they could form theirs when they read the book.

But, I was pressed to elaborate on one topic I mentioned, the rationalization that many professed Christian Southerners, notably preachers and ministers had for the institution of slavery. B especially pressed me on this.

I explained how Stowe would use characters in her books to express the various views, through dialog and action. I actually found it a bit obvious at times, but she did get her point across.

There were some Southerners who went to the Bible verses on God's order of things. How there are kings and queens, and workers and those lesser. How scripture says that slaves should be slaves and do their work well. (Please forgive me I don't have the chapter and verse and am paraphrasing.) They took this to justify the 'orderliness' of God and how all things are in their right place.

(In essence using selected Bible verses to back up their preferences.)

B says- "But what about the verse that says "The meek shall in inherit the earth?"

We all agreed.. and it led to further conversations about how today you will still see it.. professed Christains who will use selected Bible verses to back up their view points. Some which are not Christain.

And, then we got back to the beauty of the totality of the Catholic Church, which takes all scripture and tradition into account and give us guidance we can trust.

Plus, I made Cilantro Chicken for dinner (one of John's recipes) and it came out right! B made the rice and forgot if he got the ratio right (rice to water) but he did and it was perfect!

And S is now watching and enjoying the DVDs on the Civil War. But I am seeing they really are just an introduction to the whole era. There is so much there.

And last night dh told B that he may soon be a better expert on the Civil War than he (dh) is. That was quite a complement, as dh has loved history since a boy and took college level classes on this area at UT. I think B was pleased.

Ok.. off to get dressed for my workout. Have a great day, all.

New Tact on the Journey...


Well, it is a cold, rainy day in Houston and a fresh batch of icy air has moved in. Fellow Houstonians are complaining, but you won't hear that talk around here. We love it!

I am finding this blog is migrating in purpose a bit, which makes sense for journally type writing. It started as a place to explore thoughts on why and how we home educate. But I see now it has become more of a place to reflect a part of our life and home to my friends. It may migrate back again later.. who knows?

I think most of my visitors are friends, and they check in on me, and as most have blogs I check in on them. This is so fun. It is like icing on the cake of life. To be able to fire up the computer and see what my long distance friends are up to, see pictures of new babies, or birthday parties, or trips to museums. How cool.

I also find that when I blog, my journals are much more detail than the ones I keep on my own. Though the ones on paper serve other purposes (more detailed for credits, private thoughts not appropriate for the Internet.. lol), etc. So, it is a nice complement to the other journalling I do and I plan to print it all off for my binders every so often. It is also a creative outlet for me. Feels good to write and produce some pleasing blog entries. Do others find that?

So,it seems this blog is fast becoming more of a slice of our life. I think that may attract a certain audience, but also will bore others to death! lol

So, onto my next post.. as I sip my coffee and listen to the rain and thank God for my wonderful life here in rainy SE Texas.

God Bless!

Sunday, January 21, 2007

Ralphie's Fitting






















Ralphie's sweater is in progress. He is great about the fittings as long as I catch him when he is asleep. I can roll him over, tuck under his chin, whatever I want.

As you see, he is very excited about the new togs.

New Addition to my Office




















Can you see it? On the left. I took an old white board and am listing the current things I am researching/working on. So I won't FORGET!

I tried writing them in my journal, on a slip of paper, in my organzier, but they got lost in the shuffle. Now, as I sit at the computer, or walk through the room, I can see the brainstorms I had, or what the boys and I talked about doing.

If you click on it can you read my writing? I'm going to try....

Saturday, January 20, 2007

Another Quote

I am enjoying hearing the wit and wisdom of Abraham Lincoln. This quote just cracked me up. One thing Lincoln had to bear was inept generals in the Civil War. He went through many of them, often they would fail to move, and not act. He got very frustrated. Don't know if that is what prompted this quote, but it may have.

I liked it.


January, 1863
The hen is the wisest of all the animal creation because she never cackles until after the egg has been laid.

~ Abraham Lincoln

Friday, January 19, 2007

Quote

I liked this quote...I need to make sure I don't use it too liberally with my 2 teen sons... oh and my dh, too.

"It takes a lot longer if you don't start."
~Anonymous

One of my Favorite Cartoons

Thursday, January 18, 2007

Boys 'n' Me


















The past couple of days I have had that sad fleeting mommy feeling... oh I miss these days when the boys were little! I know, I have fine young men now and love life with teens.. but I do miss these days. What fun!

B on the right always had a smile like liquid sunshine...! Can't beleive I put myself on the internet with no make up.. lol

Dh taking the picture of us at Grandma's condo pool. :)

Uncle Tom's Cabin


Ok, this book, written by Harriet Beecher Stowe, is on every list out there for teens to read. I never had much desire to pick it up... well until now as I continue learning about the Civil War. Found it at my libary on audio.


I am about 8 chapters into it and the audio rendition is read by Rebecca Nicholas. This woman has a wonderful talent for voices- black, white, male, female, she captures them all.

What I knew about this book was that it was an instant best seller and helped to show the plight of the slaves and cement the Abolitionist's cause prior to the Civil War. That was about all I knew.

What I have found is that HBS manages to really humanize these slaves. They are people, with souls, feelings and lives. She also portrays the owners as not all bad, but all misguided.

I found it very telling when she said of some kind owners, who treated their slaves well, educated and nurtured them (a rarity), that even though these particular slaves had it better than some, the institution could not be forgiven. Their lives were still in the hands of others.

Today I got curious about who HBS was, so did some google-ly research. Turns out she was a prolific writer and had a supportive husband. More than half of her children died before her and some had addictions. She lived a tough life, but being raised by a father who was anti-slavery and encouraged discussion at home, she came to believe in certain values and write about them throughout her life.

I love this- I see shades of a home full of atmosphere of learning and disucssion. Something we try to foster here, too. It seems like whenever I look into people who make a difference in the world, they have backgrounds that caused them to think.. rarely did they just go through the motions of a standard education.

Here are some quotes from some bios I found. Her mom died when she was five, but her family had a large impact on her life.

...After the publication of Uncle Tom's Cabin, Stowe became an internationally acclaimed celebrity and an extremely popular author. In addition to novels, poetry and essays, she wrote non-fiction books on a wide range of subjects including homemaking and the raising of children, and religion. She wrote in an informal conversational style, and presented herself as an average wife and mother. ...

...She was fortunate in having the support of her husband Calvin Stowe who always encouraged his wife in her career. This kind of support from a husband was unusual at the time when women were not expected to have a career outside the home...

...In 1820 Lyman (her father) preached anti-slavery sermons in response to the issue of whether Missouri should be admitted to the union as a slave or a free state. Lyman's dynamic preaching, religious energy and commitment had a profound impact on all of his children. He encouraged an intellectual environment at home and would often lead family debates on important issues of the day....


...She (her sister Catherine) argued that running a home was as complicated as running an office and that young women should be instructed in these duties the same way boys should be instructed in careers outside the home. Catharine also stressed the importance of written expression. Her students spent many hours composing essays. As a result of Catharine's teaching methods, Harriet received an unusually fine education, and, under her sister's guidance, began to develop her talent as a writer....

Wednesday, January 17, 2007

Crazy Texans

Oh, cometh Iceman, cometh!

Here in sultry SE Texas we see little ice-cold weather. Ironic, in that all four of us love the cold. I am very warm natured to start with, and some of my favorite memories was running in the icy Ohio winters.

Both boys love the cold.

My dh is from Long Island and loves cold, and really does not like heat.

And here we live in the semi tropics.

The weather people expected Houston to get a blast of this cold freeze that is blanketing the country's midsection this week. Problem with Houston, is just as it gets to us, the durn warm Gulf of Mexico air pushes it back north. Nothing like winds from the south in the winter. That means warm and humid days.

Well, last night it got really cold. It was Ohio-cold. We took the dogs out and enjoyed that icy brace against our faces.. so wonderful. I told the boys they better get out a lot today, as this is the last chance for bonechilling weather for a long time, as it begins to warm up tomorrow.

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

Your Choice




















I liked this.. it is on our blog:
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Sunday, January 14, 2007

Some pics of real life...:)



















Our living room with Christmas splendor galore!!


























Boys' domain- (pics taken by S). Notice the Gatorade bottle collection over the TV. I was asking them to please bring empties down.. but then they said it was a 'collection'. So I began buying various sized bottles and found myself bringing empties *up* to the gameroom for them. Ah, do they have me hoodwinked? lol






















New keyboard and post-Christmas mess.

















Is this organized or what? Tells me that kids do know how to organize if it is something they care about. But don't look at their clothes closets.... :)





















My handsome, handsome 16 year old son. Makes a mother proud....

Thursday, January 11, 2007

The LIFEbinder- from my old friend!

My old friend was in the Houston Chronicle today! She has created a system to keep important information at your finger tips in case of an emergency or just if you need to get to it quickly.

This is SO Lynn! She and I used to job share and she is one of the most organized and energetic people I know. This is so cool.. check it out. In their Christmas letter this year, her husband said it was the Rita emergency that caused Lynn to seet the need for this and now she is making it available to others.

I am so proud of Lynn. We used to share a job. She was a pleasure to work with. This was when I had first have my oldest son and went back to work 'part time'- about 24 hours a week. And he was in childcare.. and Lynn was so helpful and supportive to me. But we both eventually knew we wanted to be home with our kids and both got there. Though our job was really fun and we worked for an awesome exciting company.

So neat to see where her talents have taken her.
You can reach Lynn at thelifebinder@yahoo.com


Article in the Houston Chronicle January 11, 2007

Northampton resident helps others get organized
By FLORI MEEKS

LYNN Champion takes organization pretty seriously.

So when she came up with a system for making her family's financial,
medical, personal and property information easier to access, she was
pretty excited.

The Northampton resident didn't really expect other people to share her
enthusiasm, but less than two years after developing a Life Information
for Emergencies binder for her family, she has started selling her
system to the public.

"It makes me feel good that people are interested in being organized,
and I have a product they can use," said Champion, 47. "They're
excited, so I'm excited."

Champion's LIFE binders are meant to make life easier when people need
important family right away. Each package includes a CD with formatted
files for customers to complete, print and store in the binder.

Categories include finances, medical records, assets, insurance,
employment histories, income tax returns, legal documents and personal
documents such as birth and marriage licenses.

If a family member became ill or died, the binder would be a guide for
loved ones, Champion said.

They also can be useful during a crisis, Champion said. She grabbed her
binder when her family evacuated for Hurricane Rita. "If you have to
leave quickly, everything you'll need to re-build your life will be in
there," she said.

Debbie Cantu has been giving binders to family members, and she got one
for herself.

"The way my filing system is now, people would have to spend days
looking through it if something happened," the Conroe resident said.

"Lynn is such a nice person. She put into action what a lot of people
were thinking."

Entrepreneurship is a new experience for Champion. The Michigan native
has worked about eight years as a certified public accountant and spent
the last 14 years as a full-time homemaker. She and husband Emile are
the parents of Megan, 20; Kelsey, 17; and Cam, 14.

About two years ago, Champion attended a personal finance course at her
church. The instructor emphasized the idea of keeping the family's
important papers in one place both spouses know about in case something
happens to one of them.

Champion, the family bill-writer and keeper of the finances, started
worrying what Emile would do if something happened to her. "I started
consolidating all of our papers," she said.

Gradually, she started creating categories for the papers. The bill
section, for instance, provides a place to list account numbers,
payment dates and methods of payment.

As Champion told her friends about the system she created they started
asking her to provide one for them.

Champion sold her first binder package for $39.95 in August, and the
business started growing by word of mouth.

Tomball resident Gayle Mills has become a customer and a voluntary
binder promoter. "To me, it's about your life," she said. "Lynn came up
with a wonderful product."

Champion has not established a Web site for her product, but she can
accept questions by e-mail at TheLIFEbinder@yahoo.com.

Champion, who also is an avid scrapbooker, is mulling over a new idea.
She wants to develop a system for storing family photos that could
easily be transported in an emergency.

"When we left for Hurricane Rita, I wasn't worried about finances," she
said. "I spent most of my time getting my scrapbooks together."

E-mail profile suggestions to Gus Morgan at gus.morgan@chron.com.


Brought to you by the HoustonChronicle.com

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Grant and Lee

I am now listening to the book April 1865 by Jay Winik.

It is about the last month of the Civil War, in great detail.

The part I am on now is the letters that Grant and Lee send each other as the devestating war is coming to a close- Lee is retreating deeper in the south and west and Grant is pursuing him.

They wrote eloquently to each other, like gentlemen. They had to deal with the length of time it took to get the correspondence through, if the letter got through at all.

It was a different time- no cell phones, and even with all the bloodshed, still a sense of chivalry and honor.

Now, knowing he is going to have to face surrender, Lee has to decide whether to order his men to engage in gurellia warfare, and ancient form of war where the weak can subversivly engage the strong. Another point in which Lee's decision affect the history of our country. Amazing.

Nice dinner converation, too.

Monday, January 08, 2007

Back to Normal... Whatever Normal Is


Yes, like most of my friends online and IRL I am feeling that urge to get back on a more normal schedule. It started well, I guess, as I awoke at 5:30 am and could not go back to sleep, so I am up planning my week/month/life.

My short ToDo list:

1. Finish organizing my office. It DOES feel good so far and I have the bug to finish.

2. Get a handle on the bills, financials, etc. Keep it regularly updated, which will be easier with my organized office.

3. Refocus my health goals See Lean But Not Mean for further info...

4. Store Christmas decorations in new containers and find room for them inside (as opposed to the attic where they would get yikcy..)

5. Review where boys are with their projects and credits. S has a schedule he wants to keep up, so work to help him achieve that goal. Think about credits he needs and pursuits they want to follow. Put on my calendar to regularly touch base and take notes.

6. Set up some specific times to do these and other things- work on home businesses, reserach resources for boys, meet with boys, help them pursue things they want to do, etc.

7. Nurture me and find time for me to be off duty to single mindedly peruse my things. Art and knitting and currently on the top of the list.

8. Balance my computer time- keep up with friends, but then get off and do other things when I am through.

9. Nurture my friendships and leave lots of margin to do so.

10. Check each decision/option and ponder if it will bring me closer to God. (quite a little check off... but I hope to try and keep it at the forefront...)

Humm.. reading that, it looks pretty normal. :) At least the dog looks happy (and organized...)

Sunday, January 07, 2007

Out of Step, In Step

Today our family had our Christmas gift exchange. B and I had an early morning dogsit with Sophie (her picture is to the right) and her sidekick Bailey first and I thought to myself that I could not run by Starbucks for my cup of bliss since it was Christmas morning and it would be closed. But it wasn't! So I did!

Today after we opened gifts, B commented that the rest of the world has moved on, but here we are celebrating Christas. I almost felt like a missionary in a pagan land or something. lol

Ooh, now the good stuff. Guess what I got? Well, I knew about it because I picked it out over a month ago when Hobby Lobby had a big sale.

I found this book months ago and Barnes and Noble and splurged and bought it. Paint Happy



I loved it. I loved the color, the style and her whole attitude toward painting. I want to loosen up when I paint. I liked watercolor, but felt I was always folloing rules and always painting realistic.

To see more of her art, go here.

But, when I went to get the supplies (acrylic paint, pastels, etc) it was a lot fo moola so I put it off.

Well, for Christmas I got the whole kit and kaboodle!

Then, today I went to set up my things in the guest room where I have a craft table. Boys looked at each other.. uhem.. well, that is now their light saber room. ((Don't ask questions.)

I wanted a quiet place where I could leave everything out. Bryan suggested his room as he really only sleeps there. Long story short, we moved things around and I now have a studio! It is the quietest room in the house, and has sunny windows. I set up my supplies and a radio and listened to C&W and painted away today. Dogs laid on B's bed and slept while I painted.

I will post some creations later.

So, now am picking up the trimmings, boys are checking out their stuff and we had a nice day.

Saturday, January 06, 2007

Just call me...

My Peculiar Aristocratic Title is:
Countess Cynthia Lynn the Mellifluous of Throcking by Hampton
Get your Peculiar Aristocratic Title


Thanks Maria!

Friday, January 05, 2007

What Are You Looking Forward To?

Someone asked me this today. Have you asked yourself lately?

For me it was our 'delayed' Christmas celebration which we are having this Sunday morning. We were travelling on Christmas Day this year. Every year since the boys were born we have had Christmas Day at home. So we decided to delay our gift exchange a bit.. and boys chose this weekend, which is Ephiphany!

So, today I am buying the remaining stocking stuffers, wrapping presents and playing Christmas music. Yesterday I made 3 batches of Christmas cookies. We are one of 2 houses on the street with our light still up and ON.

I know what I am getting for Christmas, so I am really anxious! How is it my boys have better gratificaiton delay than me? lol

Thursday, January 04, 2007

I Am Going to Write this on My Mirror.. :)

From friend Monica at UC:

Is (fill in the blank) bringing you closer to
God or pulling you away?


That may seem very simplistic and
could be dangerous if mired in justifications, but I am finding that it really
does help me make decisions about my actions, my plans, and my activities. Life
is fluid, and we have to change constantly based on our families’ needs. I am
finding this question to be very centering for me. I can’t get caught up in what
other people think is important, because I have my kids and husband to be
concerned with as well as my own needs. We don’t all have the same goals along
the journey though we all share the ultimate goal of heaven. And, it’s
okay!

Wednesday, January 03, 2007

Our Trail to the Civil War

Civil War Resources- Fall 2006- Winter 2007

Someone asked me about the things we found for the Civil War, so I thought I would post them here. We are still going.. I have a basket full of books/tapes/videos we are sorting through. If I find more gems I will add them.

The first four items were the centerpiece for us! The film that Ken Burns did was just extraordinary- and encompassed 5 DVDs that we have watched over and over.

We all loved Across Five Aprils, an historical fiction book written for older children.

Killer Angels was killer! The audio version we had told at the end of how the author got interested in Gettysburg and researched this book for 7 years. It is the story of a handful of players in the battle, Lee, Grant, Chamberlain, Longstreet and others. It is from their personal view and really brings history to life.

And the (audio) book of short stories really seemed to weave the history together for me. I find Stephen Crane a bit hard to understand and he wrote the first story, but the rest I had no problem with. Well, the last one was a doctor's account and got pretty graphic with the wounds he treated, etc, so I skipped that.

These are a mix of adult and children's things, and I put the ages by the ones that were not adult. Hope to add more later!

These combined with lots of discussion has been a great forray into the Civil War for us.

The Civil War- A Film by Ken Burns (PBS Documentary)- centerpiece (teen-adult)

The Killer Angels by Michael Shaara (audio narrated by George Hearn) Ages 12 and up

Across Five Aprils by Irene Hunt (we enjoyed audio and print) Ages 10 and up.


The Little Regiment & Other Great Civil War stories [sound recording] / [edited by Martin Greenberg]
Stories included: The little regiment / Stephen Crane (David Ackroyd) -- The die-hard / Stephen V. Benet (William Windom) -- The brothers / Louisa May Alcott (Gabrielle de Cuir) -- One of the missing / Ambrose Bierce (Stefan Rudnicki) -- The valley was still / Manly Wade Wellman (Richard Gilliland) -- The unknown soldier / Kristine K. Rusch (Dan Musselman) -- The lamp of psyche / Edith Wharton (Amanda Karr) -- How Stonewall came back / James Warner Bellah (William Windom) -- The locket / Kate Chopin (Judith Cummings) -- The face / Ed Gorman (William Sanderson).


The Civil War- An Illustrated History (companion coffee table book to Ken Burns’ film)

The Civil War- A Narrative by Shelby Foote (teen- adult)- partial- a bit dry, but good after I had learned some background.

Bull Run by Paul Fleishman – Recorded Books, full cast. Ages 10 and up

Lincoln A PhotoBiography Russell Freedman (10 and up)

Great Battles of the Civil War- John MacDonald (coffee table book- computer aided graphic reconstruction of the battles)

Gettysburg – Movie based on Killer Angels book.

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

Pete Fountain- Happy Ears!


This is my office-organizing music! Who can't be happy while listening to this?

Click on music samples- While We Danced at the Mardi Gras- wonderful!
click here

Oh, and if you get this CD, track 6 has the most awesome drum solo!

Organizing for the New Year and "Why You Can't Let Go"

I don't usually do formal resolutions, but still find the new year gives me a feeling of a clean slate, a fresh start. That coupled with me feeling adrift the past month has put a bug in me to organize. Leonie also gave me inspiration!

I want to pay the bills and keep on top of it. I want to have papers I need at my fingertips. I want to reduce clutter. I want to have a central place for my work and planning- my office.

So, yesterday I spent most all day putting together my office. It was makeshift, but I went though all my old homeschool files (yes!) and threw out a bunch. I organized my two little businesses (Happier at Home! Petsitting and Lighthouse Catholic Media) and printed out labels for all my files. That is the first time I ever printed labels.

Now I open my file drawer and experience bliss!

I know I need order, but I have to be careful not to translate this need into a control thing with my boys' learning. So, I am re-reading this article to help me remember why I think I need curriculum.. and when I really don't.

It is all a balance... and I have to keep seperating my needs from their, while trying to really see theirs as well. If this makes sense... :) How to use the tools available without becoming a slave and forgetting what real learning looks like.
I liked a lot of this article:
Why You Can't Let Go

Some excerpts I liked- the first about why curriculum draws us:

"We may each have our own list of pros but some of the pros of curriculum for us parents that I came up with are that it:

1) Removes the burden and responsibility of choice so we can feel confident the kids are getting the right information in the right way.
2) Provides feedback that "important" learning is taking place. It eases our worries about whether kids are getting what they need because "academic" knowledge seems artificial, as though it can't be learned from life."

And I love the whole ending of the article:

"So think in terms of joy rather than need to or important. One cool connection or one good feeling about Egypt with the doorway open and available anytime they want to explore further will serve them far better than a bushel of so called important facts that will fade from disuse and lack of interest.

Think in terms of creating a lifetime learner rather than creating a standard foundation or framework. If we give them the gift of confidence that they can learn anything they decide to, that there's no time limit to learning, no point when they're done, then we've opened every door possible for them.

Think in terms of right now. Today. Help them be who they are right now. They are 4 and 6 and 12 for a reason. School kids spend their childhoods preparing to be adults. Let them be who they are now. After all we didn't worry about them discussing poop and Teletubbies when they were toddlers even though it didn't sound like it was preparing them to be corporate directors or doctors or even first graders. We knew they'd get linguistically where they needed regardless of what path through language they took.

Think in terms of a journey rather than a destination. They're not locked in towards some specific destination but on a lifetime journey of exploration and discovery that they can take anywhere they want to.

Think in terms of nurturing your own enthusiasm about life rather than nurturing their enthusiasm. Don't jump up and down about George Washington if he puts you to sleep. Be honest in your pursuit of what interests you. Let them see that you think something is really cool. Not to get them interested in something you think would be good for them but an honest "Wow! I love this stuff!" And ask questions about life. Be curious. Because it's the questions that are important. Anyone can look up the answers but not everyone can ask the questions.

Think in terms of nurturing your own interests rather than waiting to pounce on their interests. Tackle some new recipe for yourself, not because you want them to join you. But if you do have a choice, doing things in a kid friendly way creates an inviting joyous atmosphere. You're more likely to have company in the garden if you plant a beanpole teepee than if you plant a field of rutabagas.

Think in terms of creating an atmosphere of wonder where people are genuinely curious about life and where there are intriguing things to be curious about. Not because that's what would be good for them, but as a gift to them with no strings attached.

Think in terms of their interests leading them out to the world rather than looking for pathways for the world to get into them.

If we put that plan into action in place of curriculum, the world is open to them for learning for the rest of their lives."


Monday, January 01, 2007

New Year, New Habits!











Click on comic for larger image...

Well, I can relate a lot to the cat!

Sunday, December 31, 2006

Priority Leftovers


My dh has been cooking up a storm so our fridges are packed with turkey and BBQ leftovers.

Tonight the boys ordered pizza on special and had lots of leftover plus breadsticks, but we had no containers to store it in.

"What will we do?" ds looked a bit panicked when he could find no tupperware because of our abundant leftover situation.
"We need something...these are priority leftovers!"

lol (We used ziplock bags... whew!)

Lean But Not Mean!


Hey come check out this new blog where we are getting fit and trading stories and suggestions along the way! So far is is just Leonie and me, but if you want to join in, let me know and you can post, too!

Lean But Not Mean!

Friday, December 29, 2006

Animal Farm




All animals are equal. Some are just more equal than others.


I am always on the lookout for books for the boys, especially books on tape.

I had considered Animal Farm a couple years back, but sensed it was not time. I remember from high school that the book was a bit dark. But, this time I felt better about it, though I have not read it in 20 years.

B and S both listened to it on the car trip to my parents this Christmas. They liked it. I just finished it today. Very interesting.

It was written in England during Hitler's rise to power. The parallels are fascinating as he used a fable format of animals on a farm to describe fascism and the different personalities involved. The intro is excellent (by Wodehouse) and he explains that a good 'fairy story' does that- syntheses character traits into one simple personality.

We have also had fun thinking about what animals our dogs would be in the story.. Boomer would have to be a pig as he is chubby, greedy and smart enough to lead the other animals, and Ralphie would be a sheep. The sheep are not smart. I grew up on a friend's farm and I KNOW.. sheep are NOT smart.... but good followers.

It is neat, I thought tonight, how the right book comes along at the right time. The boys were ready for this one and know enough of the world to make the connections the author intended. Any younger and it would be scary... how an animal gets killed or is betrayed.. but at this age it is right.

And tonight with the news about Sadaam Hussian's execution. We are praying for him and his soul. The boys have watched his rise and fall. He is part of their experience and we see many parellels between how Napoleon the Pig rose to power and took over Animal Farm through intimidation, lies and strong-arm bodyguards... and Sadaam's rule.

Friday, December 22, 2006

Good Morning!

Hello everyone! No grumping today... :) Got some antibiotics in me and am turning the corner today as Dr. Nguyen said I would! The best thing about being sick is how good you feel when you are getting well.

Thank you to my friends for asking about me. :)

I thought I might post a bit about our upcoming weekend. I am on my dh's laptop so still have limited computer time. Maybe this is good? I have taken up knitting and actually will sit and knit and find it very relaxing. I am making a sweater for Ralphie, per B's request. Should be interesting.

Today we have tennis and are giving Rod (our pro) a gift basket full of goodies. The boys wanted to give him food as he is a bachelor and every time one of his kids brings any kind of food to practice, he wants some. So, we have food. Cheeses, pretzels, Gherrideli chocolate, homemade pumpkin bread (he told the guys his favorite combo at Starbucks is Pumpkin Loaf and coffee), smoked almonds, energy bars and some sparkling apple cider.

We got the idea for the cider when Spence dropped off her basket to us for St. Nick's Day.. it was wonderful!

Oh, also in the basket is a can of tennis balls and a GC to a local tennis shop. I think it may be a perfect gift because I know he does not make much money doing what he loves, and this is kinda like 'luxury groceries'. lol The boys wanted to get him a Tshirt that said FEED THE COACH. That would have been cute.

Rod has been such a blessing in our lives. He is perfect for my boys- motivates them, really teaches them the techniques of tennis, has a great sense of humor and we see glimpses of his life and life choices. Neat guy.

So, we have tennis today. Also I have a couple of errands to the grocery. S and I are going to talk about credits a bit to wrap up the year.

We have a dogsit customer starting today- our Great Dane and Lab. I got the portrait done of the Great Dane and will post if I can. I didn't get the others done so gave each 'client' a Christmas bag of bone doggy biscuits. :) We will sit the girls today through Sunday.

Saturday we will go to Vigil Mass and may have a visitor.. a guy from dh's past college days who is coming through Houston on the way to his hometown in Port Arthur. We hope he can stay overnight- he is so fun and was such a great host to us years ago when we went to California. I was pregnant with S.. that is how long ago it was!

I am going to make lasagna on Saturday to have Christmas Eve. I had heard of the idea of always having the same thing on Christmas Eve as a tradition. So, thought we would try that. I have my lasagna-making down pat (read easy!) and everyone loves it. So will make that.

We have dog sits all day Sat and Sun.. and also I have a haircut/highlight that I had cancelled this week... and we are going to try and get the tree up. And we leave early Christmas morning to go to my parents'. Oh and we invited Barbara and her dh over for lasagna- she is my friend who is joining the church.. very nice couple.

So, I hope I finish getting well and we all stay well. Well, what is meant to be is meant to be.

Oh, here is a happy thing. Yesterday I made homemade queso for the boys for the first time. It is simply Velveeta Cheese and Rotel tomatoes with green chile. You heat it up on the stove and mix together and dip tortilla chips in and eat. Yum.

The boys had a late night last night. I woke up after midnight, searching for water and they had this feast laid out. Gigantic midnight snack! They had made a fresh batch of queso and the kitchen was a disaster! Pots, pans, spoons, bowls. I was too tired to remind them to clean it up.

I got up this morning.. and the kitchen was sparkling! They had soaked the pans and bowls, rinsed things out, cleaned off the kitchen table..(not perfect, but not bad for teen boys!)

Nice... )

Hope you all have a wonderful day.. and this last weekend before Christmas.

Wednesday, December 20, 2006

When things don't go my way...

I got sick last weekend- headache, dizzy, weak. Put myself to bed as best I could with lots of Vitamin C and liquids. Shook it by Tuesday.

Thursday I did weight training and pulled a muscle.. REALLY bad. I was in pain for days, limping, could not sleep, could not get out of the car! Rested it as best I could. But Tuesday it was almost normal.

Tuesday I caught another, different cold! I have it now. I am miserable. Throat is on fire, headache, dripping nose... weak, no energy.

Dh is out of town.

The monitor on my computer broke. I have to mail it in to be repaired- estimate is 3 weeks. I can't even see what is in my computer to find email addresses. I have very limited access to this other computer, so may not be on much.

What is God telling me? Maybe nothing. Maybe just be the way things are. But I had a plan.... Advent plans,, plans to lose 10 pounds by Dec 31 (hard to do if I have not worked out in a week.. looks like that may extend to two..) had planned... baking, etc. Low key, but they were there. Also my side of the family is all excited because we are suppoosed to drive to my parents' Christmas day and meet my brother et al. What if my cold runs through the house? Do I make sick kids go? I will have major guilt if we don't go.

Reading Leonie's post here about failing. I am thinking... how much of it for me is planning my way and then stressing when things don't do my way?

I know my prayer life needs help, too. Why is it i am farthest from it when I need it most?

I talked to a friend yesterday who I had not touched base with in a while. Mostly I didn't call her b/c i have had a rough couple of weeks. Didn't want to whine. I found out she had a really bad time, too. It felt so GOOD to realize each other was going through this.. and make that connection. I think I will call her again today.

Leonie- thinking of you.. and I can relate so much. I will try to get over to your blog while I have this computer, too.

Hugs to all--- give yourself lots of love and space. That is what I am going to try and do. I feel much better just typing this out!

Friday, December 15, 2006

Deep Thinker?

Oh.... my poor, poor children. Could you imagine living with a mom like this?
Thanks for the link Maria! lol

Your Scholastic Strength Is Deep Thinking

You aren't afraid to delve head first into a difficult subject, with mastery as your goal.
You are talented at adapting, motivating others, managing resources, and analyzing risk.

You should major in:

Philosophy
Music
Theology
Art
History
Foreign language

One More Civil War Connection

Well, now I am watching the DVD and doing the special features where Ken Burns (the filmaker) talks over part of the show to describe the process, etc.

Guess what I found out!?

The REASON he got interested in making this documentary about the Civil War is that he read the book.... The Killer Angels!

I had no idea!

We found the DVD first, and got hooked, then I posted on my local CM list about good Civil War books. My friend Joy told me about Killer Angels. So we read it.

So COOL that Ken Burns got his inspiration from the book we loved, particularly he was inspired by the story of Joshua Chamberlain the officer who was a professor from Maine.

I wish I could start all over with the DVDs. Now I want to do a Civil War trip. :)

Wednesday, December 13, 2006

Call From Vicksburg

My dh called on his cell phone yesterday as he is on a business trip.

He had just driven through Vickburg, the site of a major battle of the Civil War.

He just called to let us know!

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

You Have Your Dreams... I Have Mine!



Last night I dreamed that B and I were tromping around the countryside talking about the Battle of Gettysburg with Shelby Foote. He wrote The Civil War, A Narrative, which I am reading atm.




B is watching The Civil War by Ken Burns in which Mr. Foote is often seen telling stories about the war and people.

We had such fun exploring and talking! You have your dreams.....I have mine!

Monday, December 11, 2006

I am looking forward to today and the week!

Ah, Monday.

I realized that I am looking forward to today. Nothing special happening. In fact on the surface it looks pretty rough. Boxes are everywhere. There are a pile of groceries to be put away. I need to clothes shop for jeans with my 16yos. I have not yet showered and it is after noon.

But.. there is more beneath the surface...

1. The boxes are full of Christmas decorations that my dh and sons brought down from the attic last night. Today we get to sort through and this year will retire a few. And maybe we will get a few new things! And we will start decorating, complete with Christmas carols in the background.

2. Putting away groceries I have noticed how much healthier my ds are eating. This is on their own. And they both have started workout plans.

3. I have not showered b/c I did my work out this am and did my grocery shopping. This is good b/c a bad cold came on last Friday, but I pampered myself all weekend and shook it! And I got some drawing done and some LOTR read. Not bad!

4. I hear my youngest ds in the other room watching the Civil War DVD. After I finished Killer Angels (about the battle at Gettysburg) I re-watched that part on the DVD. Told him how cool it was to see it again, now he is watching it. And now dh is in there with him on his lunch break watching too, and talking about the Civil War. Father and son now have a new common interest. THAT's cool. :)

5. This week we get to do Advent/Christmas stuff. Address Christmas cards, do my drawings for my dogsit clients (got a good one finished of Sophie and Roxy is coming along!), have a new batch of audio books to preview from the library, am expecting my online purchases for the boys to start arriving...

6. Dh likes his job.. for the first time in a long time. Hallelujah! All of you who have had this with your husbands KNOW how important this is.

7. Are taking the boys' buddy out for lunch after tennis this week. I love hanging out with these guys.. they are so funny!

8. Have two dogsits with Jasper.... gotta love him.
So, onward to my day.

Thanking the Lord for all my blessings.
Hope you have a lot to look forward to this week, too.

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Perfecto Timing!

Tonight I responded on our local Cm list about how composition cannot be taught. Charlotte Mason contended that if children read enough literature and have models for writing, they will learn to write. And they will write better if it is about their interests. (I will post the quotes at the end here.)

Anyway, I responded with a post about how that has been true here- that both my boys are proficient writers and I have seen all sorts of influence in their writing- L. M. Montgomery, JRR Tolkein, CS Lewis.. as well as Dave Barry and John Erickson of Hank the Cowdog.

Well, after I posted that my 16yos came into the kitchen and said-

"May we cast away our timer for the evening?"

What eloquent language! Really they wanted to play Vg without it.. sometimes this is necessary for an RPG or creative game... but they are out of free days for the week.

But, he proved my post's point! I heard shades of JRRT there, and he commented on that as well as he has been reading a lot of LOTR today.

So, with such a delivery of poignant eloquence, I of course said YES! :)

And, here are the quotes the friend on the list put up- Charlotte Mason on the subject of composition--

"Composition in Form I (A and B) is almost entirely oral and is so much associated with Bible history, English history, geography, natural history, that it hardly calls for a special place on the programme, where however it does appear as 'Tales.' In few things do certain teachers labour in vain more than in the careful and methodical way in which they teach composition to young children. The drill that these undergo in forming sentences is unnecessary and stultifying, as much so perhaps as such drill would be in the acts of mastication and deglutination. Teachers err out of their exceeding goodwill and generous zeal. They feel that they cannot do too much for children and attempt to do for them those things which they are richly endowed to do for themselves."

"... for all their work lends itself to oral composition and thepower of such composition is innate in children and is not the resultof instruction."

"...From their earliest days they should get the habit of reading literature which they should take hold of for themselves, much or little, in their own way. As the object of every writer is to explain himself in his own book the child and the author must be trusted together, without the intervention of the middle-man."

"But let me again say there must be no attempt to teach composition. Our failure as teachers is that we place too little dependence on the intellectual power of our scholars, and as they are modest little souls what the teacher kindly volunteers to do for them, they feel that they cannot do for themselves. But give them a fair field and no favour and they will describe their favourite scene from the play they have read, and much besides."

"...the point to be considered is that the subject be one on which, toquote again Jane Austen's expression, the imagination of the childrenhas been 'warmed.' They should be asked to write upon subjects whichhave interested them keenly."

"Forms V and VI. In these Forms some definite teaching in the art ofcomposition is advisable, but not too much, lest the young scholars besaddled with a stilted style which may encumber them for life. Perhapsthe method of a University tutor is the best that can be adopted;that is, a point or two might be taken up in a given compositionand suggestions or corrections made with little talk. Having beenbrought up so far upon stylists the pupils are almost certain to haveformed a good style; because they have been thrown into the society ofmany great minds, they will not make a servile copy of any one butwill shape an individual style out of the wealth of material theypossess; and because they have matter in abundance and of the bestthey will not write mere verbiage."

Friday, December 08, 2006

Unfolding In Their Own Time


I remember 3 years or so ago wondering if my introspective son would ever be comfortable talking in groups. This extrapolated to how he would do in the inevitable classroom. Like many I believed for years that for a child to be able to handle a college classroom, he needed 12 years of progressive practice in elementary and secondary classrooms.

I had been completely indoctrinated by public school and, honestly, by some homeschool camps that had you believe you had to teach your kids everything - knowledge and skills.

Slowly... I have learned that children grow in their own time and learn all sorts of skills with natural exposure to life... and a little steering-- with a light touch-- from mom.

These boys have taught me so much. And I am learning to really trust them-- watch them, learn about how they learn and operate, give them fuel/encouragement.. and TRUST them to grow and learn.

As my loyal blog-readers know, (all 6 of you... lol) --- we have been involved with a LOTR discussion group this fall. This was the idea of my boys. I just invited people and arranged it.

As you also may know, I can't seem to finish the books. My younger son especially is aghast that I would risk a spoiler- ruin any of this Book of Books! I have managed to attend the meetings and not hear a major one---- yet.

The meetings are going well-- and both my sons are participating and discussing wonderfully. Gosh, all those worries I had... Oh us moms.

Well, today, I saw this unfold another step. Over on my dear friend Maria's blog I read a LOTR spoiler. (BTW Maria- the boys told me it wasn't THAT big of a deal...)---
but I was a teeny bit upset. I realized I better get serious. Did I really want to read this book and enjoy all the plot twists, or did I not?

OK, I knew. Not for the kids, but for ME.. I had better read that book. And I am going to. But what about attending the meetings? How could I attend and manage the meetings and not hear spoilers?

Well, the boys assured me (again) they didn't need me there.

Who would run it? I asked.

They would.

What about Mrs. Y and Mrs. J? One or both will think she has to run it if I am not there.

Then tell them, they said.

I did. And they did. They ran it. When things got off topic, they got it back on. when conversation lagged, they read another question.

This may not seem like a big deal, but you know, this is one of the things I worried about a few years ago. I know we moms can't quit worrying, but sometimes it seems it is so easy to worry, but then when things unfold, we just accept them as a given, a blip on the screen , what should just be anyway and don't take time to appreciate it. We forget this is something that kept us up nights in the past.. and now it is just here- no big deal.

Well, all I can say is this:

It IS a big deal!!!

My boys are not special and I know your kids do things like this, too.. unfold.. and hopefully you are seeing and appreciating it. You know, I am going to really try and notice these things. And note the things I worried about.. and see when they unfold. Don't worry- I won't blog them all. Please don't even think I'm bragging. I'm not- there is nothing to brag about. These are just people growing up... in their time. As God intended. But it is so cool!

I know this did not just *happen* either.. that we moms do guide, make opportunities... organize things... bring in ideas/people/concept/conversations. This is not a NON-job..no way... on the contrary it is one of the most real jobs out there. I guess I am seeing that it is a gentle, maybe the word is 'subtle' job.

Learning does not boil down to a series of lessons, such as:
This is 10th grade so now we are going to study- "How to Lead Meetings."

No, this is more of life.. steps, most natural, some prescribed that lead these people in our charges to unfold. In their time.

Well, a cold is coming on, so maybe that is making me more philosophical. But I am going to savor these years and look at what is right. And a lot is right and I love my job.

And a question I asked myself tonight.. could I at age 13/16 have lead a discussion group of teens and adults? Humm....

Thursday, December 07, 2006

Star Wars Rip Off?


I saw this story up on Word, currently being written by my 13yos.

For those who have seen the scene in Star Wars A New Hope, with Han Solo in the bar with Obi Wan and Luke, this may seem a bit familiar? I thought it was a nice example of writing being inspired by movies, etc.

I asked my son if I could cut and paste some in my blog. Why? He asked. Because I thought it was nice it was modeled after Star Wars. No, he said, it was ripped off of Star Wars!

Whatever. Mom will take what she gets.
And this author does his research.. found this page
this pagein the tray. :)

Here it is- ah... I can just hear the edge in Han, I mean Runner's voice... :)

“I’m looking for employment with the Separatists.” replied Runner. The Muun’s eyebrows rose.
“A bounty hunter?” he asked, eyeing Runner carefully.
“Yeah, and I’ve got some info as well… but it’s not without a price.” Runner waited for the Muun’s reply, hoping it would be positive.
“How much would this information cost the Banking Clan?”
“Would that be packaged with my services?”
“Yes.”
“10,000. All in advance.” The Muun didn’t even flinch. Runner wondered if it was a good sign.
“Are you aware… we could buy a whole ship with that?” asked the Muun, as cool as ever.
“Perfectly aware.” said Runner, wondering if the Muun would ever give him an answer.
“Very well. Out with it.” The Muun leaned forward, waiting for Runner’s information
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Wednesday, December 06, 2006

Killer Angels


I am sad I had to finish this book.

The Killer Angels written by Michael Sharra, read by George Hearn. The reader did an awesome job!

Oh, I do love history now. Killer Angels is a personal look at the Gettysburg battle in the US Civil War.

The author spent seven years researching it. It began as trip with his family, with thousands of other tourists that year, to the battlefield at Gettysburg. But something intrigued him. So he took off on a rabbit trail. No publisher, no advance, just his own desire to learn as much as he could.

He took his 17yos and had him dig through bushes and brambles to find plaques set there by historical societies. The son also had the job to write down all the names on each plaque, which Sharra took back to his home university library and through interlibrary loan read mounds of historical documents.

The result is a book that tracks some of the major (and minor participants) in the epic battle. I felt I knew Robert E Lee, General James Longstreet and Col. Chamberlain. Why did they fight? How did the handle the stress and dying? What was the real cause of the war?

The end of this audio book has a bonus.. an interview with the son about the book and his father- how he wrote and researched it. His dad unfortnately died early at age 59 in the 1980s.

Now B is listening to it and we are both hooked. It was funny, B got stuck in the beginning as did I.. but I kept going. And my enthusiam must have kept him going because now he has had the tape player attached to his body for most of the last 2 days. He is almost at the end. Nice to have this to share, too.

I love history- I love the people, the relationships and how life repeats itself. The thoughts these men had (or Sharra inferred they had) were not that different from thought we have today.

History is people.

My Catholic Momma Friends

Great new pic of my SA Sisters at their blog...
here! S- is gonna have the baby soon!!

St. Nick Found Us (or You Can Start New Traditions Even if Your Kids are Teenagers)

















Ok, last night at dinner I read from our Pope John Paul II book on Advent. Oh, this was such a find! I highly recommend it.

Afterwards, I pulled out the bits I had found about St. Nick. A brief summary on who he was, how the tradition of gold coins has fully morphed into Santa Clause and what the do in other countries for gifts and traditions, etc.

Then, after dinner, I asked each of my men for a shoe.

Silence. I could tell my 13yos wanted to roll his eyes, but we don't do that in here except in fun, so he didn't.

Relunctantly they each got a shoe for me, knowing this was one of 'Mom's' things. I just smiled and laid the shoes out.

My 16yos then said he didn't think he wanted to eat anything that had been in his shoe. Oh, this is so them! lol

Well.. last night St. Nick came! He brought milk chocolate gold coins for everyone and even some Gherrideli dark chocolate for Dad and some other Gherredeli chocolate for the rest of us.

Smiles this morning!

(and on top of this, my friend Spence's 19yos delieved a St. Nick basket to us today! It was beautiful, full of apple cider, wine glasses, a candle and more chocolate.. What a fun, special day!)

Tuesday, December 05, 2006

Gentle Math


Math has never been easy for my ds.

I tried it all. I won't name it all- you name it, I have tried it.

So, the past 2-3 years I have backed off. I still would try things, like living math, literature, puzzles, games, etc. He picked up a lot from his gaming and life. But the computation just gets him. And the curriculum just overwhelms him, even when his attitude is great.

So now that he is older (16) we do more chatting. About what math is. Why or why not it is important. What he might want to do when he grows up (writing is top of the list), what doors math might open. (test scores, etc)

He found a CD curriculum he likes. (least of all evils)

I asked him if he would like help structuring his time. He said yes.

This is like Me, parent, is helping him. But it is such a give and take. I can definitely see the needs he can't but is like I am helping him come to those conclusions on his own. It is gentle.

Before he would work on his own. He wanted to do it alone. I offered to be nearby, as we decided he was getting stuck and frustrated. So, I did yesterday.

I sat and we did the problems together. Together we decided when he could skip ahead. I think he enjoyed it, as much as he can enjoy math.


But the biggest change was in me. This was literally the FIRST time I sat and realized he is where he should be. I didn't have this hidden desire to push him to do more. Or worry that he was 'behind'. We were just where we were. Where we should be. Sharing the moment. Watching him unfold.

It was gentle. I see that there is a real art to 'teaching.' Maybe the great teachers have this and can do it with a classroomful. I really enjoyed it. There was no pressure to meet a certain level. I was just watching him learn.

You Know You Have Been Married a Long Time When...


Your husband calls you on his cell phone from the grocery story because he can't read his handwriting and needs your help.

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